'Strictly Anonymous Confessions' reads like an anthropologist’s peek into the bedrooms (and motel rooms, cars, and sex clubs) of the erotically adventurous. Refreshingly free of philosophic lenses or moralistic framing, these real stories are at times relatable, at times inspirational, and at times totally out of this world . . . but they are all raw, erotic, and captivating. This book is truly a gift for anyone who wants to know not only what turns us on, but what makes us human—and the great efforts and experiments that go into finding out.

– Caitlin V, author of Harder Better Longer Stronger and host of HBO Max's Good Sex 

Kathy's non-judgmental spirit on-air and on the page brings out the juiciest details of her subjects' true-story sexploits, and you don't have to read between the lines to get that . . . or to get off . . .

– GG Sauvage, Cosmopolitan writer

Kay’s signature interview style transforms seamlessly into storytelling, bringing these almost-unbelievable real-life stories to the page.

– Molly Roden Winter, NYT best selling author

The fabulously freaky scenarios in this book are a potent dose of inspiration.

– Susan Bratton, the "Intimacy Expert To Millions"

Positive, kinky, alternative-lifestyle relationships barely get the spotlight and when they do, they’re usually twisted into something shameful or over-the-top. 'Strictly Anonymous Confessions' flips that narrative hard, giving us space to celebrate pleasure, connection, and all the wild, beautiful ways we build relationships outside the so-called 'norm.'

– Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant

Like slipping into a stranger’s bed, this book thrills with erotic confessions that are raw, filthy, and unforgettable. Kathy Kay is like your naughtiest best friend, spilling shocking secrets that seduce you with every page. 

– Lexi Sylver, award-winning erotica author

Porn is just fantasy—this is real. A must-read for anyone seeking an unfiltered look at what sexually adventurous people are doing behind closed doors.

– Dr. Zhana Vrangalova, PhD, NYU professor of Human Sexuality

A wonderful collection of spicy stories, told from a curious and non-judgemental lens. Where many authors sensationalize, Kathy seeks instead to illuminate the taboo and demonstrate that nobody is really as strange as we may feel.

– Electra Rayne, Adult performer, educator, and founder of QueerCrush.com

The 'Strictly Anonymous' podcast pioneered shamelessly talking about sex and created a much needed space for confessional erotic stories. The fact that these stories are true is just another delicious layer. We should thank Kathy Kay for publishing these secrets and normalizing the fact that we’re all at least a little bit kinky.

– Carly Pifer, creator of Aurore Erotica (curated confessional sex stories written by and for women)

Titillating, shocking, arousing and fascinating! Every story in 'Strictly Anonymous Confessions' is captivating, inviting us into the bedrooms and hot sex of real people  . . . Whether you're reading to get turned on, or to contemplate how to turbocharge your own sex life, these stories will satisfy your every need and interest.

– David Ley PhD. Psychologist, sex therapist, and author of Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them